Friday, May 5, 2023

Dancing All Around

Once March hit, our lives were full of getting Miss Brenna to dance conventions and competitions and rehearsals and trips and whewww.... it is a whirlwind in spring.  But, she never, ever gets tired of dance and she has never complained about going.  She is at a new studio this year and these cute girls on her team have been the best!

Brenna has been welcomed and loved and been just where she needs to be.  

Her dances have been so fun to watch- she is in a lyrical, pointe, contemporary, jazz, hip hop and new to her this year- a production number, which is Bollywood themed, so super fun.  

Brenna had a convention in Los Angeles to which she assured me she could go on her own, so we let her stay and do Disneyland with others that extended.  She felt so very mature and we felt pretty good about it- til we started getting notices on our credit card of her purchases (ie $60 sunscreen).  Girl was swiping left and right and fell in love with DoorDash.  She had a great time, but we told her to hand over our card as soon as she walked off the plane.  Hahaha!  

She and I traveled to St George for a couple nights for a competition and blasted/scream sang Taylor Swift for the entire car ride down, so it's a good thing no one else was with us!  April finished up all competitions and all that is left is the recital in May.  PHEW, we (me) are exhausted!

Katelee (and Grant) also had dances- but no so much competitions, but more along the lines of school sponsored date dances.  Grant went with Hailie, but he picked her up, obviously, so no pics there.  Katelee got some bang for our bucks and got to wear her rented prom dress to two dances.  
She went with her good friend Mason to the Riverton prom.

They were quite the stunning couple, even if Lizzy's boyfriend said Katelee's date resembled a cute golden doodle (he even provided a side by side picture to prove his point).  
At FSY last summer, Katelee met a boy named Jack that she stayed in touch with.  He asked her to go to his high school prom as well.  So, round two for the girl in blue.  It was fun, but he got sick and she ate tempura sushi...so by the end of the night they were both done.  

The drivers ed department was a little behind in getting all the road driving done so Katelee had to wait A WHOLE MONTH to get her driver's license.  It was traumatic for her, so we had to document the day when she finally did get it.  

Spring is extremely busy for her extracurricular as well- she has practice for lacrosse everyday starting January and then games started in March- around 2 a week. Sometimes it is SOOOOO cold, 
or rainy, or wet... and other times it is just beautiful....I might be rooting for Harrison to stick with basketball just so we don't have to support an outside sport in the inclement weather...esp when it's snowing.  Then I feel bad complaining from my blanket as I watch the players soaked to the bone and shivering! 
We love going to watch Katelee play lacrosse.  She has become so fun to watch.  She was hoping to make varsity, but being on the JV team has been awesome for her because he has been a key player to their team and needed all the time.  She gets aggressive, makes awesome shots and is awesome! 

Easter was the second week of the month and while we get so busy with all the places we run to, I am grateful to bring it all back and re-center.  There were talks in conference about making Easter the most important holiday to us, to prepare our family, to put effort into leading up to it.  Maybe this year I missed the boat a little, but lets see how we do next year.  That's part of the beauty of Easter though- refresh, retry again and again and I am so inspired by that.


Monday, April 3, 2023

Spring Fever and Sweet 16

This girl has been anticipating March 17, 2023 for as long as she can remember.  Sweet sixteen for Katelee Lyn McArthur-driving and dating and all the fun!  She really has been dating already...but we are going to say now she is free to a little more openly.  Haha!  

She is stylish and smart and amazing.  She took a few friends to dinner and a movie and we celebrated hard with some lemon bars and dinner as well.  The jokes never get old that she is our only non red-head born on St Patty's day.  One of the students at the high school discovered that I was Katelee's mom and said "holy cow, she looks just like you."  I was flattered, obviously but I told that student Katelee wouldn't be thrilled to hear that.  She wasn't, but diplomatically responded with, "I just don't see it."  Cheers to the non ginger who resembles me most! 

While my birthday was in January, there are a group of ladies in the neighborhood who all have birthdays between January-March, 
so we decided to celebrate ourselves and go to dinner in Midway.  I had to document the cute little globes we sat in- they were so fun! 
There were some fun school events happening in March as well...Brenna had her career day.  The seventh graders were allowed to miss school to job shadow somewhere.  The little dear told us about it pretty much the day before so her hopes of going with Shannon on a flight was challenging but Shannon made it work.  She just accompanied Brenna as she worked with another flight attendant.  

The pilot and other employees were accommodating and really made her a part of the crew.  She collected trash like a pro.  

Harrison had his wax museum and he always has his interests divided between history and sports but thankfully he settled on the historical hero of George Washington.  He was regal and knowledgeable in all things Revolutionary War and it surrounding times.  Solid work, George.   Harrison has been very much in tune with all things preidential, even when we watch movies.  He just asked "why does every movie seem to start on President's Day?'  It took me a minute to realize he read Present Day as President's Day.  Just keeping his head in the zone.  
The picture below was from 'Wacky Wednesday' where the elementary students were encouraged to put together a wild outfit as part of spirit week.  I really feel like Harrison nailed it.  The stuffed donuts on each arm really added that final touch.  haha!


Grant's final swim season wrapped up and the team celebrated with a banquet.  It is super remarkable the swimmers are up for those early morning practices and rigorous drills.  We are proud of Grant sticking with it!

And, the SNOW continues.  We have had record snowfall this season, and really we are not hating it.  Grant has cashed in on his season pass to Brighton and Katelee has been wishing she had one!  But, we know how much we need the water.  
On yet ANOTHER snow day, the kids built a snowman.  Katelee was a great supervisor to the neighbor kiddos 
and help them assemble Chad the BYU snow fan.  Of course, Harry was voting for the snow person's name to be Cosmo, but Chad was accepted in the end.  So many cups of hot chocolate have been consumed.  I do draw the line late at night so Harrison was especially disappointed when he started laying the mugs out at 9:30pm and I told him not that night since there was school in the morning.  He responded with, "What?  come on!  It soothes you down and calms your soul."
Shoveling the snow has been a great workout and while we have been happy with the powder, it was so nice to leave the cold and hit the beach for spring break!! 
We had gifted the family a trip to Cabo for Christmas and it was fabulous! 
We stayed at the Hyatt Ziva all inclusive resort and it was fancy pants!  The girls and I bunked together and Dave took the fellas to a room below ours.  We arrived on a Saturday, explored the resort and began our quest to consume all the tropical drinks available.  
We were getting out of the pool the first evening to get ready to try our first restaurant and an odd gentleman approached the girls and me, wanting to take  her picture, asking how old she was, saying "arrest me now" when I told him she was only 16.  So, we spent the rest of the days on high alert avoiding creepy 'Grandpa Cabo' as we dubbed him and watching for other people to try and pick up on our teenagers.  Sheesh.  

Grant tried bone marrow and thought it was "not too bad" but the best part was watching Katelee observing his culinary experience.  hahahaha!
We loved having our meals altogether and trying the different restaurants.  The buffet is always where Harrison's heart is.  

I was definitely nervous to leave the resort but we decided the church was close enough to take a shuttle to, so we spent part of our Holy Sabbath with the local saints.  
I tried to sing the hymns, but I did it in English, and it mortified a couple of the children...so naturally, I just did it a little louder!  We love going to church with saints we haven't met yet, but are so welcoming.  It is cool everytime.  

The next day, we took a couple Ubers to downtown Cabo.  We haggled a boat ride to the famous arch. 

and loved how pretty it was.  The water on the other side of the arch was a bit treacherous so we got a good bouncy ride.  

While our resort was so great, you couldn't swim in the water right off of the hotel's beach.  It was too dangerous with the rip tide and the drop off.  So, we just packed up our beach gear and our boat guides dropped us off on a good beach to play on.  
Grant was already bright pink and burned by Monday morning and it was hilarious looking at his roasted back and then glancing over to his father who was doing everything in his power to not soak up a single UV ray.  
You didn't see anyone else walking in long pants, with long sleeves and a collar flipped up covering every inch of skin.  
Dude didn't get burned, though.  So, mission accomplished. 

The next day we spent doing a little razor excursion.  
Dave thought he'd be quite the racer, but he held up the pack a little.  Brenna, Harrison and I had to tell him to go faster and faster.  He did accomodate that request when we were going through all the water! 



It was a fun ride through desert and hills and water and it brought us back to the beach to have dinner. 

It was our last night and the sunset was the best one yet!  

 
We had hoped to make it back to the resort to try a Hibachi restaurant but being on the beach together watching the sun go down was so worth it.  

We spent so much time taking pictures (especially of the younger 3)...everywhere we went we would hear 'take a picture of me,' 'take a picture of this,'  etc.  So, by the end we told the kids we needed to take pictures of ourselves now so we could catch beautiful gems like this....


It really was the perfect last night with breathtaking color.  We spent the morning of Wednesday getting our last favorite foods-smoothies, chips and salsa, and the delightful ice cream from the front bakery store.  The kids had met some other teenagers and played a last volleyball game with them.  


We wanted to have a last big spring break trip before Grant graduates and we did!  It's not like we won't ever have him on any other vacations, but we won't know which ones and this was a great one to have as his (possibly last) one with the family. The games of pool, dance shows, employees, whales jumping in the water and all the food will be some core memories for sure.  

Saturday, March 4, 2023

Birthday Love

Still the season of birthdays as we entered February and hit Grant's 18th!  His age now tells us he is an adult.  It will be interesting to see how we move forward with parenting an adult!  We are pretty much clueless as parents in general, so starting a new phase with no idea what to do seems pretty on par.  Dave had to leave in the afternoon on Grant's birthday, so we celebrated a birthday breakfast for him but then invited family over after to sing to him and Shannon.  

He read to everyone Harrison's card that stated Grant is Harrison's second favorite brother (next to Jesus) and asked Grant to grow a mustache or goatee.  He is an adult now, so maybe that facial hair starts thickening up-can't change the faint color though, so even if it is there its sometimes tricky to see.

Katelee and Grant had just been to the Sweethearts dance with their friends/dates.  Hailie and Grant were looking super snazzy....


and Katelee and her close friends Izzy and Rian were pretty much twinning minus their shoes for their dance.  

Black was the go to color, poor girls were probably freezing!  February is a cold month to be getting pictures in these outfits.  


We lucked out and all the girls got picked up at house since they were getting ready here.  So we got to see them all and it was one of their first dances so she was screaming as the car drove into our driveway.  It was so funny.  

Katelee with Seth and then a pic of all the carload 
These people ask so far in advance of the actual dance, so these girls had asked this group of boys when they had been hanging out a bunch, and then they kind of stopped hanging out.  They were worried the actual date would be slightly awkward, but it turned out great and they had a wonderful time!


Boom, right after, we were celebrating Miss Brenna becoming a TEENAGER.  She has really started to look the part and we know she has been acting teenish for ages, so it is only fitting for her to be thirteen.  

She is our sassy, organized, dancing queen and we love her!  She decided to spend the day skiing for her birthday with Dave and then have a movie night with friends.  Katelee helped me decorate the basement and the squeals of teen girls suggested it was a success.  

Katelee is so good at decorating and designing, we petitioned her to help with Harrison's Valentine's Day box, one of my most dreaded school projects every single year.  I am sure I could scroll back into Feb since Grant was in kindergarten and find myself lamenting in the blog how I hate to make these boxes!  Harrison had something in mind and Katelee really pulled through...

Basketball box for the win! Harrison carries a lot of the creativity/artsy gene as well.  I mean, he has been designing logos and jerseys since he could hold a pencil.  He created an Among Us mask from the popular video game and adopted that persona for a few days...
It is a bit unfortunate because the game you are either trying to murder before you are caught or avoid being the victim.  I hope it worked out for him, it didn't work out for his helmet to stay in one piece for very long! 

This winter kicked in with the snow storms pretty darn late, but there have been some doozies!  I hosted book club one night and it had been a snow day, so Dave had to plow the street so the ladies could walk over in the deep, deep snow.  I mean nothing could stop a book club about a seance and romance! hahaha!

So, we spent our month celebrating our people and reflecting on love.  I recently heard someone say we love people because it is the right thing to do not because they are doing the right thing.  It is easy to love when people are always kind, or little babies/children who shower you with affection.  It is a challenging privilege to love our family members and those around us when they are not being easy to love or doing what we would hope they would be.  I guess that really is true love though- being solid in those times that are hard and those times that love comes freely.  It is an honor though- to be surrounded by people to love and who give us that opportunity to consider what it means to have true charity-the greatest love of all.